I feel very silly to have kept Vesta's birthday in my old calendar when she left us last spring. I hesitated to cancel my entry but I prefer to keep it. So it's no more a birthday, just a memory (and a testimony of my stupidity).
I don't know how I could forget, probably because I don't always make the connection between the nicknames and the people themselves when I'm not in constant contact. And I guess my RL daily routine with Mom and hubby, both old and sick, doesn't help.
Thanks a lot to rhymephile, lorelei633 and ursual4x who reminded me of our lost.